What if the thing that made you strong… is now the thing keeping you stuck? I've always been a very capable woman.
Independent. Get on with it. Sort it out. Find a way.
And for most of my life, I've been pretty damn good at it. 😂
The interesting thing about self-sabotage is that it doesn't always look like weakness.
Sometimes it looks like strength.
Being fiercely independent.
Always being the responsible one.
Needing to stay in control.
Putting everyone else first.
Never asking for help.
These behaviours may have helped you become the woman you are today.
The question is:
Are they helping you become the woman you want to be NEXT?
You don't need to stop being strong or capable.
You might just need to stop automatically repeating strategies that belonged to a different chapter of your life.
And perhaps start asking:
What do I actually want NOW?
If this has made you curious about the patterns running your own life and you'd like some help identifying them, comment ME below and I'll send you some information about how I work.
You've got far too much life ahead of you to spend it automatically repeating the first half. ❤️